#9. Why Your Prison Guards Will Hold You Back with Dr. Valerie Rein
Be everything that you are here to be because that gives your children permission to do it too. ~ Dr. Valerie Rein Click To Tweet
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Hey you wild women!
I am so honored to have this next guest on my show. I picked up her book on the recommendation of a friend and devoured it in a matter of days. We soon became Instagram friends and shared a couple of conversations as her work in the world is SO incredibly important.
She is the author of Patriarchy Stress Disorder: The Invisible Inner Barrier to Women's Happiness and Fulfillment ... and let me tell you, this book is no UBER feminist woo woo text, but brings facts and data to the understanding of women’s oppression. And her work is the only science-backed system for helping women achieve their ultimate success, happiness, and fulfillment by healing the generational trauma of oppression.
She holds an EdM in Psychological Counseling from Columbia University and a PhD in Psychology from the Institute of Transpersonal Psychology.
Her cutting-edge programs have helped thousands of women shift from survival to thriving and master the game of "How good can it get?" in their work and personal lives. She is a sought-after speaker and trainer at conferences and companies committed to setting new standards of excellence in their industry in diversity, equity, and inclusion, employee satisfaction, their physical and mental health, and creativity and innovation.
In This Episode, You Will Learn About:
Invest in things that see your bigness
Have a lot of compassion for yourself
“You don’t become a millionaire for the million dollars. You become a millionaire for the person you become in the process.”
Not trusting that you know what to offer was one of her biggest business mistakes
Oppression is not our fault
Patriarchy Stress Disorder = PSD
Traumatic experiences are genetically transmitted
We carry traumas throughout life
Women have been carrying trauma for thousands of years
Everything that was every ‘wrong’ with women, stems from thousands of years of oppression
We don’t have role models in the world of women living authentically
PSD does not correlate from our accomplishment
Nothing is wrong with women, it’s not about the mindset, it’s much deeper
Trauma is any experience that made you feel unsafe, that led to you building trauma adaptions to make you feel safe
A woman’s power has always been a punishable offense
Women want to be free. It is what we desire!
Everything in our culture reinforces PSD, instead of making it better
Be everything that you are here to be because that gives your children permission to do it too
Our actions are decided in our subconscious
She calls BS on ‘money mindset issues’ because the reality is that it wasn’t until the 80’s that women could take out a loan without having a male counterpart co-sign
The biggest unconscious privilege of men, in this culture, is being believed in
Fear of failure keeps women in her safe cell
What is holding us back is not personal, it’s the patriarchy
75-90% of autoimmune cases are in women
Public shoutouts:
Marianne Williamson: A Woman’s Worth
Meryl Streep on Instagram
Resources:
Website: https://www.drvalerie.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drvalerierein/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drvalerierein
Being a wild woman means:
The woman who disobeys. She was burned at the stake throughout history. We are the women who disobey the establishment. We don’t settle for the crumbs that the Patriarchy settles or us. ~ Dr. Valerie Rein
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